life
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When I think of you, you are still 51, your face in my mind so clear But there are times I will admit I question if you were really ever here For it seems quite impossible that you’ve been gone for such a long while That we’ve all had to endure life without your beautiful Read more
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“Nostalgia is a powerful feeling; it can drown out anything.” Terrence Malick There are cultural items in life that act as a time machine transporting us back to happier days. They can elevate our mood in an instant, bringing a smile to our hearts and rescuing a burdened mind and spirit. Like the scent of Read more
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Serendipity: the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way. *** After I got the call that Mike was at Albany Med and I needed to get down there right away, I quickly left work. My office mate at the time, and good friend, Sarah, was in court so I Read more
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The first few days after Mike’s stroke were so surreal. I didn’t know how I was still functioning, actually. I wasn’t sleeping and I cried from the minute I left the hospital til the next morning. I kept praying to wake up from this nightmare. About two days into Mike’s hospital stay, I asked how Read more
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“Happiness is a simple game of lost and found. Lose the things you take for granted and you will feel great happiness once they are found.” – Richelle E. Goodrich It’s easy to focus on all that Mike has lost as a result of the stroke. I’ve witnessed firsthand what it has taken away from Read more
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I finally finished Squid Game. It’s a show on Netflix. While it’s not for everyone, I thoroughly enjoyed it. Three seasons of brilliant writing, superbly cast and executed. The ending: Perfection. Oh, and it was super hard waiting for the release of each season. But that’s when you know it’s good! *** After messaging a Read more
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“Your mission, should you choose to accept it…” I love the Mission: Impossible movies. But I always wondered what if the person is like “Nah, I’m good”? I mean, what happens then? I guess there’d be no movie. 🙂 For Mike, there was no choice. But there has been acceptance. Acceptance of his current situation. Read more
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July 20, 2025 100 is a powerful number. As per Google, many cultures see “100” as a completion, a milestone, or an achievement. The Arabic numeral “0” after all is in the shape of a completely full circle. The first 100 days after a significant event are often celebrated for various reasons. Whether it’s 100 Read more
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July 11, 2025 “It’s not a lie if you believe it.” -Seinfeld Ringing in 2025 with Mike was a great start to what I thought would be an amazing year together. I anticipated a marriage proposal and we were planning a lot of new adventures like hiking the high peaks, skydiving and, if there was Read more
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“Life is like a kaleidoscope of seasons, each one a unique and beautiful experience.” My Aunt Blanche passed away this morning. She was 90. She had a peaceful departure, I’m told, and I thank God for that. She was blessed with a long life but it wasn’t an easy life. When I think back to Read more
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